Tip #1: Make time for internet dating
First, the bad news: internet dating is not a quick fix. It’s highly unlikely (though we admit not completely impossible) that you’ll meet the man or woman of your dreams on Day 1. You’ll need time – time to fill out your profile, to read member profiles, and to communicate with other members. But, the more you put in, the more you’ll get out of the process.
Tip #2: Enlist a friend
Share your internet dating adventures with a friend, and if they’re single get them to join your search for love online. After all, it’s great to have someone to share the good (and bad!) bits with. Think online dating is embarrassing? Remember you’re joining a pretty big club of over 5 million people – you’re not alone! It’s just another way to meet new people – nothing to be embarrassed about.
Tip #3: Sell yourself in your profile
Your profile is key. We recommend you spend at least a couple of hours filling this out – trust us, it’ll save you a lot more time in the long run. By making your profile a true representation of you, you’ll filter out more time-wasters right from the start. Make it original too; we cannot tell you the number of profiles that say something like ‘I love keeping active’. Great, but doing what? Be specific to give your profile some colour. If you’re stuck for something original to say, ask a friend for their view of you – you’ll find it eye-opening!
Tip #4: Post a photo gallery
First off, photos are important. Most people want to see who they’re talking to, before they agree to meet in the flesh – it’s just human nature. Secondly, don’t just post one photo, post a selection that shows your personality. Anything from you with your family to enjoying your favourite pastime will do. If you’re nervous of posting a photo for privacy reasons, remember that eHarmony only shows your profile to people we match you with – no-one can search for your profile. And of course, if you’re still anxious, you can choose not to post a photo, it’s totally up to you.
Tip #5: Be open minded
If you’re coming to internet dating with a shopping list for your ideal man/woman you’ve got the wrong end of the stick. Yes, internet dating gives you access to thousands of people you’d never meet in everyday life, and yes you can usually filter them down based on your own personal preferences. But, if this is about a new start for you, then it’s a great opportunity for you to think about what’s really important in a partner. For example, f you’ve always gone for powerful women or men in the past, ask yourself whether you really want to repeat that pattern.
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