5. Get her number and get out
Don't worry about getting a date during your first conversation with a beautiful woman. At this point, just use the three-minute technique to get her e-mail and/or phone number. Start with a little teasing. Look her in the eyes and say: "So is it true what they say about redheads (or brunettes, etc.)?" She'll say: "What do they say?" You answer: "If you don't know, I'm not going to tell you. But what's your name?" After getting it, say: "I have to run, but I'd like to continue this conversation. Do you have e-mail?" Then hand her your cell phone as if you fully expect her to enter her info.
4. Once you go for it, be sure to keep it going
Once you can approach and compliment a woman comfortably, learn to keep eye contact with her. Try pausing for three seconds and then say the word "beautiful" while keeping eye contact. If you can do this, you'll have women stop you and try to talk to you as you're walking away. When you can do this comfortably, try asking her a few casual questions to start a conversation. Ask her if she lives in the area or if she's visiting. Ask her what her name is -- simple stuff. See, isn't all this feeling easier already?
3. Just go for it
How basic can things get? You won't get the woman of your dreams until you try. That's why the first thing you need handled is feeling comfortable around attractive women. You need to get to the point where you can walk up to one and start talking to her without turning into an emotional basket case. That's why I want you to try approaching 25 women over the next week. Just give a compliment and walk away. Say: "Hi, I just wanted to tell you that I think you're beautiful. Have a great day," and walk away. Do this, and guess what? She might even chase after you. But more importantly, you're well on your way to feeling more comfortable and are starting to get dates with "Total 10" women.
2. Make a great first impression
The sad fact is, when a guy is trying to meet hot women, the initial conversation usually doesn't feel normal. His body language is strange. He's on his best behavior and is trying to put his best foot forward. But start off the interaction with a woman the right way, and you'll form a first impression that will cause her to see anything you do from then on as attractive. This is another reminder that once a woman thinks of you in a particular way, she's likely to think of you in that way for a long time. Start out by acting like a Wussy, and she'll assume that you will always act like one. And you're done.
1.Stop trying so hard to impress
Here's something that might not sound logical: After you make a great first impression, stop trying to impress. Most men immediately sabotage themselves with their overwhelming impulse to impress hot women. They hem and haw. They try to say "cool" things. They act nervous during the conversation. Worst of all, they act like a "Wussy." They don't dare to tease let alone do anything to upset a woman. All of this makes them act unnatural and that kills attraction. So stop trying so hard.
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