1- Start off in your range
If you are a 5, start by going after a 5. If you're a 1, 2, 3, or 4, I'd still recommend starting off with what you perceive to be a 5. A guy's gotta have motivation, right? Chances are, you won't be as nervous around a girl whose looks are equal to or only slightly better than yours. That's because she's likely to be less choosy and therefore give you more leeway.
Remember, an exceptional woman has options.
2- Learn how to talk
With trial and error, you'll start discovering what it takes to pick up a woman and develop your conversation to keep her interested and make her desire you.
Learn how to seduce her with words...
There are two important aspects to learning how to be a smooth talker.
1. How to talk
2. What to talk about
3- Boost your confidence
Slowly, you'll begin to learn that talking to women is not that intimidating, and that you can perfect your pickup technique on the 5s before you move on to hourglass pastures. If a 5 shoots you down, that's fine, move on to the next 5, and the next (you may have noticed that there are lots of 5s out there to practice on), until you alter your technique and improve it.
4- Take them to bed
Average-looking women attract average-looking men, who, on average, have less sexual experience and less confidence. Both of these factors inhibit such men from trying new things in the bedroom, because they're unsure that they'll continue to be desired if they do something poorly or — God forbid — differently. Women won't respond well to this limited repertoire, the men won't know what the problem is, and a vicious circle of sexual ineptitude begins.
5- Move up in rank
Now that you've seduced and conquered the women at your level and improved your sexual technique in so doing, it's time to move up the 10 scale to, say, a 7 or 8. Start the process all over again. This time, it likely won't take as long, considering your confidence is noticeably higher and therefore making you more appealing to the ladies. You may find yourself moving up quite quickly, but don't aim too high too fast or, like Icarus, you may set yourself up for a fall.
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