How to Date a Woman Who Is Taller Than You: 5 Tips

1. Don’t Make a Big Deal Out of It.
Emily Altman had a thing against dating someone shorter than she is…until she started dating someone shorter than she is.  How’d her current beau sneak in, despite the height requirement?
“He like, doesn’t notice it or even care about it and he’s certainly not threatened by it. He’s completely comfortable in his skin so the fact that he’s shorter than me never bothers him, so that helps.”
When approaching a girl who’s taller, don’t mention the height difference, don’t point out how tall she is (she knows.), don’t make a self-deprecating joke about your own height. Just…be normal.

2. Avoid Doing Sneaky Things to Make Yourself Look Taller
Even if you don’t say anything outright about her height, you can still project discomfort with it by doing sneaky, height-increasing things, like standing in front of her on an escalator. As if she isn’t going to notice that that’s what you’re doing!  “As a girl, I have a thousand things to be self-conscious about without adding a guy who feels the need to always stand on the higher step or puffs out his chest,” advises Christine, who is 6′.

3. Tall Still Means Feminine, Ladylike
Most women want to feel feminine, regardless of their height and their partner’s proportion to it. Sure, you may not be able to sweep her off her feet (physically), but there are other things you can do. Guiding her through a room. Putting your arm around her waist. Helping her step out of a car. “Short men can still be the big spoon; you just have to measure and adjust accordingly,” Tekoa adds.

4. Don’t Just Tolerate Her Height, Appreciate It
“I think this is important, because even if the guy is confident, sometimes the girl could still feel self conscious next to him because the height difference is striking. A guy telling her it’s attractive that she’s tall can help.” says Emily. In other words, height isn’t just something to get used to, it’s something to actually appreciate about her, along with her pretty hair, quick wit, appreciation of creepy documentaries, and general tidiness (or whatever).

5. You’re Getting a Lot of Leg With That Height
Remember, there are major advantages to dating a tall girl.”You know that way you sit with a guy on a love seat, watching TV? Where he is sitting upright and you are leaning against the arm with your legs over him? And he holds onto and rubs your legs? Those moments are the best,” swears Christine. What’s an inch our two of back-to-back difference over that?

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5. Whatever you do, don’t be a pansy:
It’s easy to overdo the confident look but that does not mean you should be the cowardly lion from The Wizard of Oz.  The easy mistake (in not wanting to appear arrogant) is to come off as a passive, low self-esteem, friend type of guy.  No one wants to be “the friend”. Don’t be overbearing, but definitely make it seem like you’re feeling good about the interaction. Smile, laugh, and give her the impression that you’re always having a good time.

4. Whatever you do, don’t be boring…be funny:
Laughter really is the best medicine, as everyone knows. It is also the best aphrodisiac this side of the Spanish Fly (and much cheaper.) If you prove yourself to be funny and likable, then you will prove yourself to be good company. Instead of just walking up to her and blurting your name out, it’s much easier to first establish yourself with a joke and then move into the “getting to know you” talk.  This however comes with some restrictions…

3. Whatever you do, don’t look desperate:
To some degree, this ties in with number 5, but it still warrants its own point. If you come across as needy, then you won’t be seen as the love stallion that you are. Instead, you’ll look like a cuddly, sad, pathetic puppy. Lacking any confidence and acting dependent to a random stranger you’ve just met, is like screaming, “please love me!” And that is behavior best saved for the lawns of ex girlfriends.

2. Whatever you do, don’t put up a front:
You are not the most interesting man in the world. Ordering a Dos XX and trying to speak French in a Russian accent is not going to work. Unless you’re hitting on someone at a cast party, your theatrical prowess might be taken as dishonesty.  The same goes for pretending to be interested in things that you really aren’t interested in. After all, if you both don’t have some common ground, then what on earth are you trying to hook up for?

1. Whatever you do, don’t assume that any list like this holds all the answers:
Although these recommendations are based on discussions from the knowledgeable Leftos community, no holy grail type scripture exists for picking up a beautiful lady.  A lot is based on working in the realm of the theoretical. Believe it or not, women are not theoretical, even though they tend to love Rent and Soap Operas. Women are very real, complex people and as a result, there is no single list in the world (even those written by geniuses like us) that can fit for every situation. Flirting has always been a complicated issue, even since the days of the caveman when it was considered disrespectful to pick a fly out of of a woman’s back hair without permission. Things might be more civilized but they definitely aren’t simplier .

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1- Start off in your range
If you are a 5, start by going after a 5. If you're a 1, 2, 3, or 4, I'd still recommend starting off with what you perceive to be a 5. A guy's gotta have motivation, right? Chances are, you won't be as nervous around a girl whose looks are equal to or only slightly better than yours. That's because she's likely to be less choosy and therefore give you more leeway.
Remember, an exceptional woman has options.

2- Learn how to talk
With trial and error, you'll start discovering what it takes to pick up a woman and develop your conversation to keep her interested and make her desire you.
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There are two important aspects to learning how to be a smooth talker.
1. How to talk
2. What to talk about

3- Boost your confidence
Slowly, you'll begin to learn that talking to women is not that intimidating, and that you can perfect your pickup technique on the 5s before you move on to hourglass pastures. If a 5 shoots you down, that's fine, move on to the next 5, and the next (you may have noticed that there are lots of 5s out there to practice on), until you alter your technique and improve it.

4- Take them to bed
Average-looking women attract average-looking men, who, on average, have less sexual experience and less confidence. Both of these factors inhibit such men from trying new things in the bedroom, because they're unsure that they'll continue to be desired if they do something poorly or — God forbid — differently. Women won't respond well to this limited repertoire, the men won't know what the problem is, and a vicious circle of sexual ineptitude begins.

5- Move up in rank
Now that you've seduced and conquered the women at your level and improved your sexual technique in so doing, it's time to move up the 10 scale to, say, a 7 or 8. Start the process all over again. This time, it likely won't take as long, considering your confidence is noticeably higher and therefore making you more appealing to the ladies. You may find yourself moving up quite quickly, but don't aim too high too fast or, like Icarus, you may set yourself up for a fall.